Hello friends after a long time I'm here to share something, actually I was busy with some circumstances of life and my health. Ok ! leave it. now I'm going to share some off topic post (at least for tricksway) because at his morning I got it interesting and informative for youth. Topic is based on common youth and their problems as love , emotions or something which happen wrong, and some important point to forget someone as per my research. Let's start...
1-Clearing out (Delete Everything) related with : This includes telephone numbers, visit logs and messages. It may hurt you, but you won't read or call if you no longer have access to these things. It is additionally savvy for you to block their number/email, to prevent any future contact.
2-Dispose of all poems, music, movies, photographs, and so on: The one way which will ensure you can not forget them ever is continuing to be "stay in touch" with them. It’s dangerous because human emotions are irrational, and staying friends with someone we have romantic interest in makes us falsely believe – usually in spite of ourselves – that they are somehow somewhere available when they are not. Discard all of the special items that remind you of this person. Get rid of the things that remind you of your love. Toss the majority of the exceptional things that help you to remember this individual. Dispose of the things that help you to remember your affect.
3- Remove everything that remind you to your love: This may be gifts, cloth and some valued jewellery. Donate them to a worthy cause.
4-Letting go & Bless your former lover: I know well it's not so easy to bypass all things but you can start something new, even if it does not take you off, you should at least be happier with the experience. Setup you mind to forget everything hat's happened, bring yourself to truly forgive, and if possible, go up to the person you like most and tell him/her that you have been deeply hurt, but still you forgive them for all they have done.
5- Stop talking about your ex-love all the time & don't try to take revenge: Same things none of people want to listen everyday, if you talking about your ex all time than sure your friends will soon disappear and will be harder to find them again.
6-Respect yourself don't beg and blame for everything: She broke up with you and already made up her mind to do. Then no matter how shocked and in pain you are, don't act like beg her for another chance. I know it's very hard to do, but try hard not to cry too much - seriously, it may be impossible not to cry.
7- Do not try to contact her any more, let her go : She may keep calling you, trying to let you down easy, saying he still cares about you, or some other things. But she still won't commit herself fully to you, doesn't really want to be your girlfriend/boyfriend any more, etc. Let her go. It's no use.
8- Do not try rebound, Let done be done: Going back together time after time may be a bad idea for a some important reasons:
a- It may let her know you can accept being treated badly and still let her come back, so she's more likely to treat you badly again (assuming, of course, he treated you badly in the first place).
b- If she was disrespectful to you, it desensitizes you to her disrespect of you.
9-Focus on yourself, Realize that you have just eliminated a Mr. or Ms. Wrong: Yes, you can do it, now it's time to focus on your aim, remember another special things of your life, your hobbies your small sister/brother or anything else. Watch your favourite Tv shows or play games or do anything you like most and it will help you to busy and erase all bad things.
Key Points To Remember :
- It's better to be alone for the right reason, than with anyone for the wrong reason.
- Don't show her your emotions ever. Be strong. You don't need her.
- Stop to listen breakup songs and stories.
- If you don't respect yourself, you're giving others the go-ahead to treat you like dirt.
- Put your head up high, smile and continue on your journey. Remember, there are bigger fish in the sea
Disclaimer: Some part this post, ideas and image taken from various source of internet (Wiki How & Some More) and for that credit goes them.